What it means to get the life you want

Salona Carlisle
2 min readOct 22, 2020

Most people are waiting for some thing, person, or event to happen in their life to take away this underlying feeling of unhappiness.

They’re desperately searching for a way out of their dissatisfaction.

From morning to night, they’re engaged in a constant search for lasting fulfillment.

It’s the driving force behind all the choices they make.

They scroll social media, looking for answers and solutions they believe are “out there”.

They numb themselves out in an attempt to avoid the emptiness inside.

They buy more stuff to try to create the feelings they haven’t found within themselves.

They blame their circumstance for what they don’t have yet.

They move faster and work harder in their race against time.

Because, most people think that getting the life they want means getting all the circumstances they think will make them happy.

What I actually mean by this…

And what I teach my clients — is how to create the life they really want WHERE. THEY. ARE.

That is the one skill, above all else, that helps them create the life they actually want — no matter where they’re starting from and where they’re going.

Until you learn this skill, everything else will just be a temporary bandaid that you will have to continue replacing over and over again, because you’re not addressing the root issue.

Every attempt to create satisfying, sustainable change will be merely an escape and compensation that will only re-create more of the very thing you’re trying to get away from.

When you change your thinking about your current life, you change the entire soil from which your desires are born.

When you learn how to be happy where you are, you’re cultivating the optimal environment from which to draw your future to you.

That’s when all that you’ve been running towards and working so hard to attain starts chasing after you.

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Salona Carlisle

Feminine Embodiment ~Tantra and Sacred Sexuality ~ Mindset ~ Mentoring woman on the sexy path back to wholeness ~ www.SalonaCarlisle.com