True magnetism
Secretly, you want to be wildly attractive.
You want to be seen, noticed, and stand out in a crowd.
You want to know that the whole world desires you.
You want to feel that your presence is captivating and your energy is palpable.
You want to be magnetic, undeniable, and unforgettable.
You want to be THAT woman who turns heads in whatever space you walk into.
So, you do all of the transformational work.
You listen to the right podcasts.
You follow the right people on IG.
You even do the yoga and sensual dancing.
You attend the webinars and workshops that promise to teach you what you believe you still need to learn and become…
All because there’s a deep female conditioning around judging yourself based on how you’re perceived by others.
No matter how hard you try, you still lie in bed alone in the stillness of the night
Confronted with a feeling of hollowness
Feeling totally invisible
Wondering if you might be broken
And exhausted from your constant pursuit of enough ness…
When you rely on the outside to feel the way you want to feel, you will spend your whole life chasing acceptance, validation, and attention.
You will project your own magic and power onto something outside of you
And make others the source of your happiness and pleasure.
It’s possible to feel whatever you want without any confirmation from anyone else.
For example…
The level of love you can feel is only based on the level of love you can create within yourself.
As long as you haven’t developed the capacity to feel love in your own body and believe you are worthy of love, then you won’t be able to truly let it in from any external source either.
And you know what?
THE best time to cultivate the qualities you desire is when no one is giving you the feedback to lean on…
Because if you can find them then — without relying on any external validation — you own them forever.
This is the embodied path back to feminine wholeness that I teach my clients.
When you know that YOU are the source of all the amazingness that will ever happen in her life…
That’s true freedom and true magnetism.
